I'm 25 year old and am getting married in July, for the first time. My fiance is 9 years older than I and he was married once before and has two kids, 3 and 5. Anyone else in the same boat? How are you incorporating the kids into the wedding ceremony (other than them being the FG and RB)? I'm a little worried their mom is going to change her mind at the last minute and say they can't be in the wedding.