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Re: Boss's SO

  • anna.oskaranna.oskar member
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    You really should invite them with their SOs.  It's generally rude to exclude a partner when there is a committed, long-term relationship.
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  • Brie2010Brie2010 member
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    Yes, you should invite them.  They are a social unit.  How would you feel if your FI got invited to a wedding but you were left out?

    Your wedding is not your time to pass judgment about someone's choice in mate.
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  • betrothed123betrothed123
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    Please look down and see the 90 other posts just below yours asking the same question.  Yes, you must invite your Boss' SO.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • danieliza1127danieliza1127 member
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    Yes you need to invite them.  They may not come anyway, but you definitely need to extend the invitation.
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  • ring_popring_pop member
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    You must invite their SOs. Consider how awkward it would be for them to see your co-worker's SO there when their own SOs weren't invited.
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  • september's brideseptember's bride member
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    And for the record, nobody bit your head off. This type of question gets asked more frequently than it should be, and would not need to be asked if people would give their questions some thought beforehand with some empathy and common sense thrown in for good measure.
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  • TurtlesAllTheWayDownTurtlesAllTheWayDown member
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    A celebration of the union/relationship between too people is not the time to judge another's relationship and disrespect their union.
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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    Think of it this way... If you were having a backyard BBQ would you only invite some people's SO and not others??

    Mostly likely not,  weddings are no different.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
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  • kikibabykikibaby member
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    Do people really have no idea how to seek out an answer on their own before posting a new thread?  Almost the exact same question was asked about 10 freakin' minutes ago.
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  • betrothed123betrothed123
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    I even said "please"  :shrug:
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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  • beatlesgirl25beatlesgirl25
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    If you think your head got bit off, you clearly haven't spent much time on here.

    Ditto everyone's advice, sounds like you will do the right thing now.



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