Let me preface with my fiancee and I are having to pay for the whole wedding ourselves. We asked my family for a little help and were told to go to the justice of the peace.
My grandmother wants me to be sure to send an invitation to the multiple family members on her side because she is afraid they will talk about her if they don't get an invite. She offered to pay for the diy kind of invitations, but I'm concerned that if I send them an invitation, they may show and then we wouldn't have the money to feed them. Plus, I think they might be offended if they see the "real" invitation everyone else would get.
Re: Ok to send different invitations to family who are unlikely to come?