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420 Wedding theme

So my FI and I met on 420 at a 420 gathering and are getting married on 420. He's a country boy from Oregon and this is his third wedding. I am from New York and this is my first wedding. 

He wants a 420 themed wedding with pot and weed to a big part of our wedding. Even though I'm a hippy I've always dreamed of a formal new york wedding and while I've caved and will get married in Portland I guess I'm still dreaming of the formal. 

Any ideas girls on how to mix his hippy style with my formal dream?
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  • RebeccaB88RebeccaB88 Figment of Your Imagination member
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    You want a wedding theme to be about something illegal?

    Furthermore... you want to marry a man who actually wants this kind of thing?  Seriously?

    Compromise... he wants Oregon, he gets Oregon.  You want formal, you get formal.  Formal in Oregon.  And FFS, forget about the weed. 
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    This has to be MUD.  But a nice try.  I guess.

    ETA:  How come you say that this is your first wedding when on another board you said you've already been married before? 
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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    [QUOTE]So my FI and I met on 420 at a 420 gathering and are getting married on 420. He's a country boy from Oregon and this is his third wedding. I am from New York and this is my first wedding.  <strong>He wants a 420 themed wedding with pot and weed to a big part of our wedding.</strong> Even though I'm a hippy I've always dreamed of a formal new york wedding and while I've caved and will get married in Portland I guess I'm still dreaming of the formal.  Any ideas girls on how to mix his hippy style with my formal dream?
    Posted by dtrudel295[/QUOTE]

    Good luck with that.
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  • This is, by far, the stupidest theme I've ever heard of. God I hope this is fake.
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  • You can have different stations with different bongs with different kinds of pot for all your guests to try. You can give out different shaped bowls as favors. And instead of having flowers, just use pot plants. And instead of a sit down dinner, just have a "munchies" buffet.
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    [QUOTE]You can have different stations with different bongs with different kinds of pot for all your guests to try. You can give out different shaped bowls as favors. And instead of having flowers, just use pot plants. And instead of a sit down dinner, just have a "munchies" buffet.
    Posted by almost-a-bride[/QUOTE]


    Ooooooooooo this is hilarious!!!! ^^
     
    I hope the OP isn't real, but if it is, ummm....I feel sorry for you sweetie :)
  • Your table numbers could be the each of the 12 Steps.  

    Make sure to seat you and your FI at the head table: Step 1: Admitting You Have a Problem. 
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  • Yeah, I'm not buying this.

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    [QUOTE]This is, by far, the stupidest theme I've ever heard of. God I hope this is fake.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]
    Exactly what I was thinking. There's no way this could be real.
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    MUD MUD MUD MUD.

    wtf...a 420 themed wedding? what is WRONG with you? ugh. good try.


  • IF this is real, RUN, honey! You do not want to marry this man. Seriously, if you are old enough to get married, you are old enough to know better!
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    I cringe at just the OP referring to it as a 420 theme. What are you, 12?
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  • So, this is your first - don't be desperate and feel you have to marry him.  Sounds like it is a one sided relationship.
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    What? I hope this is MUD otherwise you risk you and all of your family and friends being arrested. Even if they don't use it, they are around it and that is good enough for a possession charge. Way to hate on friends and family. If you are just using pot decorations....yeah, not seeing that as anything but silly.
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    This is about weddings.. not teenage stupidity.
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  • MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot Atlanta member
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    You could have special brownies for a groom's cake...
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  • here's an idea. take your pot and lack of motivation for a real hobby and try doing something productive for once. formal weddings are for people who work real jobs and can afford them, not wastes of lives as yourselves who think they are a neat idea. god i hate people sometimes 
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    [QUOTE]What? I hope this is MUD otherwise you risk you and all of your family and friends being arrested. Even if they don't use it, they are around it and that is good enough for a possession charge. Way to hate on friends and family. If you are just using pot decorations....yeah, not seeing that as anything but silly.
    Posted by crlewis803[/QUOTE]

    But jail is a free honeymoon! 


    Anyway, I also hope this is MUD.
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  • Wow. First I highly doubt this is real. Second if it is real let me start by saying clearly there is a reason your fiancé has had more than 1 marriage. Do you want to get arrested on your wedding day and have you even thought about how your families will react?!
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    [QUOTE]You could have special brownies for a groom's cake...
    Posted by MyNameIsNot[/QUOTE]

    The perfect groom's cake.

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  • This can't be real...

    Please tell me this is not real...
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  • I wish this was fake but it is actually very true 
  • If you wish it was fake why are you even entertaining the idea? Lame.
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  • compromise something simple. You could find some really pretty bongs to use as vases if you look you can find some that are really pretty. Maybe some black lights and black light sensitive posters decorations. maybe a hemp wedding dress and tux (yes they do exist i remember seeing an article about it a while back) This is a theme that very easily can and will cross the line into tacky as hell though.

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    [QUOTE]Trying to make my baby happy
    Posted by dtrudel295[/QUOTE]
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