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s/o stastically...we have to hve cheaters on this board too, right?

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ever wondered who they might be?
Great popoff topic.

(and I know stats don't really work that way.  But, hey, lets run w/ it for a moment)

The interwebz say 40% of women will have an affair while married (I think that seems high but, whatev).
So that means there are a bunch of us who are due to sleep w/ someone else...or who already have.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm going to go ahead and pick out a man, just in case I am among the destined.
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  • GBCKGBCK member
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    edited December 2011
    "well, he tripped and his d1ck fell into my vagina!" type destined?

    hmm, I should pick out someone for that too.
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  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    I think GBCK means that we are cheaters and she wants to single us out.  

    Legally, I am a cheater and I am okay with that.
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  • NOLABridesmaidNOLABridesmaid member
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    edited December 2011
    I think they're more women cheating than we think.
     
    I also think that out of 25+ women that post regularly on this board, at least one of the spouses, male or female have cheated or will cheat.

    I know that's kinda Debbie Downerish, but true.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I just couldn't do it.  I would be wracked with guilt and I'm not good at hiding things from H.  Plus, if I'm going to do something like cheat, I might as well just call our marriage off at that point before hand.
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    where would i find the time, energy or interest?  maybe if the dude had a really nice bed to sleep in and a full satellite tv package (i'm not interested in other packages).
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think this board is a representative sample of the population at large.
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  • NOLABridesmaidNOLABridesmaid member
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    Kuus, why do you say that?

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  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    Most regulars here have standards, morals and ethics that would preclude them from conducting such behavior.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    NOLA, 3 Libertarians to start with. 

    Have cheated? Well, H did, with his ex. Does that count? 
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Right now I'm embarrased for DH to see me naked.  I can't imagine anyone else.

    I was the mistress for awhile.
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_stasticallywe-hve-cheaters-this-board-right-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:28bec8b7-68cd-4df1-9419-dcffe8cd2345Post:34a3c27e-1fb3-4513-9fb4-2918879d5f55">Re: s/o stastically...we have to hve cheaters on this board too, right?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Kuus, why do you say that?
    Posted by NOLABridesmaid[/QUOTE]

    This board is all middle to upper middle class, for starters.  Add to that the fact that we stay regulars here because we share common judgy values, and you have a very skewed sample.
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    Neither DH nor I have ever cheated on someone else, but we've both been the other person.

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  • NOLABridesmaidNOLABridesmaid member
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    Kuus, that's true, but in my old age, I'm just not surprised about anything anymore.

    Let's revisit this in 5 years. Add young kids. money stresses, not communicating to the mix, and things can happen.

    I hope it doesn't, FTR.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    I also wonder about the definition of "cheating". I know we have people on here who think flirting with other men is sketchy - so how did they define cheating in the study GB cited, or how do we define it on here? 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_stasticallywe-hve-cheaters-this-board-right-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:28bec8b7-68cd-4df1-9419-dcffe8cd2345Post:6670ad4a-a152-46ad-b455-ae7432e17b69">Re: s/o stastically...we have to hve cheaters on this board too, right?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: s/o stastically...we have to hve cheaters on this board too, right? : This board is all middle to upper middle class, for starters.  Add to that the fact that we stay regulars here because we share common judgy values, and you have a very skewed sample.
    Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]

    Ummmm...    You think middle to upper middle class people don't have as many affairs?   I think you're way off.   And, might I add, being more than a little elitist.
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    No, I'm just using that as an example of why this board is a skewed population sample rather than a representative one.  Though I have to say, old money folks seem to have a lot of affairs.
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