So I'm confused as to how I should react to this. Several months ago, I asked my favorite cousin Mark to sing a particular song at our wedding. He sings in professional choirs and has a beautiful voice. Well recently my uncle (not Mark's dad, it's his uncle too) who is also getting married this summer decided he wanted Mark to sing the SAME SONG at his wedding. My uncle's ceremony is a month before mine, and most of the same family from that side will be at both weddings.
I'm not entirely thrilled at the idea of my uncle preempting my wedding idea, but do I have the right to be angry? Mark is his nephew and they are also close. We both want to include him and his voice in our ceremonies. But does it have to be the same exact song? To complicate matters further, my uncle's wedding is only six weeks away, so if I'm going to ask him to change I need to do it soon.