DW = OBNOXIOUS!

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Salt, I don't know about you, but I handcuffed all of my guests and forced them onto planes to come to my wedding. It took several trips, since I had to go to 5 states, but by God, I got them there.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh yeah I meant to tell you....thanks for telling me about the pistol whipping thing! It worked super great!</div>

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · June 2010

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[QUOTE]LUV can I tell you I've thought the same thing for YEARS?! I don't understand it... I think it's really tacky and selfish. I think this post makes perfect sense because it's an etiquette board and to force guests to travel 3,000 miles for YOUR wedding is just plain awful.
Posted by BeachMuffin[/QUOTE]

Well, I actually LIVE 3,000 miles from my parents, so I guess I just shouldn't invite them. Then they won't have to worry about spending their money on my selfish-ass.

ohwhynot · June 2010

Beach muffin = sandy vag, right?

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Clearly beach muff is the only sensible one on this planet who has real manners.
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]

<div>Schizophrenia is no laughing matter, kids.</div>

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Well, I actually LIVE 3,000 miles from my parents, so I guess I just shouldn't invite them. Then they won't have to worry about spending their money on my selfish-ass.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

<div>How DARE you ever move so far from home? God Mery. You're such a selfish hoar.</div>

squirrly · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Clearly beach muff is the only sensible one on this planet who has real manners. Your wedding isn't about your "dreams." It's about celebrating with family and friends...why would you have your wedding somewhere that would force people to spend gobs of money to let alone travel there, on top of the hotel and gift costs??? It's just really selfish and unrealistic for most people, especially in this economy.
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]

Nope, it's about GETTING MARRIED. Should you choose to invite them, it can include your family and friends. But, it doesn't have to.

So, who's having a DW that you can't afford to attend? Who is it that you want to make feel guilty? Send your regrets and get over it.

LD1970 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]like i've said before...girls who aren't from jersey are just jealous, but that's besides the frickin' point! And the parents would be paying because that, again, if proper etiquette! How untraditional have people become??? It really makes me sick!
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]
I'm from Jersey, born & bred, and you sound like an idiot.<div>
</div><div>Oh, and most adults these days pay for their OWN weddings.</div>

AllAboutTheBenjamin · June 2010

...This is fake, right?

OP - I refuse to believe you're a real person. Just fess up now. You're some fakey faker who's making stuff up, correct?

Also, I've never been to Jersey - but I find it so unfortunate that you seem bent on making other Jersey girls out to be asshats like yourself.

missy68 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Oh yeah I meant to tell you....thanks for telling me about the pistol whipping thing! It worked super great!
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

Yeah - it was awesome. I have a cool friend who let me borrow his SWAT flak jacket, and man, I just raided their houses and everything. J took care of tying up his sister and nephew, since they were local.

BeachMuffin · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : You highlighted the wrong part, sockpuppet. In Shelly's sig, are you the dolphin or the killer whale?
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

False. I highlighted the part regarding the mother being unable to come and still thinking about it to this day. Not sure why you thought otherwise. I think that is the most awful self centered thing I've ever heard.

Stackeye210 · June 2010

In honor of the world cup and your unbelievable ability to:

luv626kee · June 2010

wtf is photobucket???

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Yeah - it was awesome. I have a cool friend who let me borrow his SWAT flak jacket, and man, I just raided their houses and everything. J took care of tying up his sister and nephew, since they were local.
Posted by missy68[/QUOTE]

<div>Those were some of my favorite wedding pictures. Did you have your photog with you also?</div>

shellydiane820 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : You highlighted the wrong part, sockpuppet. In Shelly's sig, are you the dolphin or the killer whale?
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

I'm going with the dolphin because they make the annoying noise.

missy68 · June 2010

Yeah they were awesome! But I had to keep them on the DL, you know. Didn't want to get my buddy all in trouble.

salt78 · June 2010

So...OP...you went to Rutgers is that right?

andy71781 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Beach muffin = sandy vag, right?
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

Have I told you lately that I love you?

Pirata13 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Clearly beach muff is the only sensible one on this planet who has real manners. Your wedding isn't about your "dreams." It's about celebrating with family and friends...why would you have your wedding somewhere that would force people to spend gobs of money to let alone travel there, on top of the hotel and gift costs??? It's just really selfish and unrealistic for most people, especially in this economy.
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]

Um, yeah several people have to travel to my wedding in the United States...all people who LIVE in the U.S. So I'm awful for inviting people who live out of state and having a MOH who lives across the country...who has to travel here?

Salt, FI & I were sad to not be able to attend your DW. If it weren't for our own wedding this year, we would have loved an opportunity to take a dream vacation AND spend a very special day with friends!

quotequeen · June 2010

Hmm... I actually do find DWs a little obnoxious.

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Hmm... I actually do find DWs a little obnoxious.
Posted by quotequeen[/QUOTE]

<div>Aww and I liked you so well up to this point.</div>

AdeleDazeem · June 2010

Some people have destination weddings so that those with sticks up their bums like you won't come. It leaves their wedding day quite happy, dontcha think?

How's that for a reason?

Sing2phins · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Hey Staten Island isn't all bad! Posted by starla827[/QUOTE]
Aw, I was just making a dig at the OP! Nothing bad intended to either Staten Island or Jersey peeps.

Stackeye210 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Hmm... I actually do find DWs a little obnoxious.
Posted by quotequeen[/QUOTE]

But then you'd just not go right? You wouldn't flame every person who ever had one, supported one, paid for one, or attended one would you? You'd let it be their choice?

That's the difference. Well at least I hope that's the difference between you and OP.

kd.joseph · June 2010

Maybe these people are having a DW to make sure you dont come!

AdeleDazeem · June 2010

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[QUOTE]Maybe these people are having a DW to make sure you dont come !
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

Jinx!

pinkpinot · June 2010

I'M FROM JERSEY AND YOU BITCHES ARE ALL SO JEALOUS.

I'm having a wedding at Seaside Heights with Snooki & The Situation ($$$$$$)

luv626kee · June 2010

So...OP...you went to Rutgers is that right?
Nope. I would never attend a state school, that's for poor and/or mediocre students, c'mon now!!...gross.com!

good for you quote queen! at least someone on here has 1/2 a brain

kd.joseph · June 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: DW = OBNOXIOUS! : Jinx!
Posted by Joy2611[/QUOTE]

Darn I had to answer the phone! Stupid work!

I had a DW because I only wanted certain people there. Meaning our kids. WE paid for everything, including the beachouse we shared with them, so they too could have an awesome vacation. But I'm selfish like that.

salt78 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]So...OP...you went to Rutgers is that right? Nope. I would never attend a state school, that's for poor and/or mediocre students, c'mon now!!...gross.com! good for you quote queen! at least someone on here has 1/2 a brain
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]

<div>I've heard they had a really good singing group. </div>

mwhitson14 · June 2010

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[QUOTE]So...OP...you went to Rutgers is that right? Nope. I would never attend a state school, that's for poor and/or mediocre students, c'mon now!!...gross.com! good for you quote queen! at least someone on here has 1/2 a brain
Posted by luv626kee[/QUOTE]

Bless your heart.

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