My finace and I are very close to our forties (well, he is there and I'm not far behind) and we have been together for a very long time and have two children together. We have decided that our daughter will be Maid of Honor and our son will be Best Man. However, my finace thinks we still need to have other attendants and I feel we don't. Do I give in and have this huge wedding party or do I stand my ground? We have gotten some "snide" comments from family and friends when we mention having our kids as our attendants, mostly because they can't sign the marriage certificate.