Deep breath in....deep breath out.
My cousin who got engaged 6 days after me (for the second time to the same guy after 11 years of dating) and then snuck her wedding in a month before mine just went dress shopping and low and behold...picked two dresses that are so similar to me that it makes me want to cry. hard.
You can't fully tell here because theknot sucks and pictures are TINY, but it a dropped waist, sweetheart neckline, buttons down the back and a tulle bottom. I know the bottoms are diferent but the part that really gets me is the bodice. Mine has cascading lace into the tulle and so is hers.
Me in my dress:
http://www.theknot.com/wedding-dress/casablanca-bridal/2066 Her top choice:

WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF