I had several guests come to my wedding without their spouse. What is the best way to thank both the guest who came and their spouse who could not make it in the same thank you card? In the thank yous that I've done so far, I've been thanking everyone for their gift and then saying something about them being there- ie: "Thank you for the generous gift, etc. etc. We're so glad you were able to share the day with us, etc. etc. " Is it weird to address both people in one paragraph (thank both for the gift) and then only one in the next (thank one for being there)? I don't want to make no mention of seeing the guests who were present, but I don't know if it's awkward to go from addressing two people to only one. I'm not really sure how to make this flow nicely. Any suggestions? Thanks!