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How often do you see your BF/FI? POLL!!!

I don't see Jeff nearly as often as I used to. We used to see each other most days. I know we often didn't spend time with our friends like we should have. Now, we don't see each other as much. I'm just curious how often you see your fiance/bf.   If you're long distance, check that box. If you live together, check that box. Pretty self explanatory...
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Re: How often do you see your BF/FI? POLL!!!

  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
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    edited December 2011
    We see each other almost every single day, it depends on the week. We talk to each other every day. There isn't one day since we met that we haven't talked to each other, even when we were doing long distance.


  • edited December 2011
    I put 2 to 3 times a week because that is the norm for when we are in school and have a lot of commitments. During the summer and holidays we see each other every day to every other day. 

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  • edited December 2011
    We talk everyday, even if it's only a quick "thinking of you" text. I'm very busy with work, and he works and was going to school at night. I usually see him 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less.
  • edited December 2011
    We see each other at least 2 to 3 times a week, more if he's not working as much.

    When we're at school we saw each other everyday. 

    I have seen BF in like 3 days. :( 
  • edited December 2011
    We don't see each other often enough.  I hate this long distance thing.  It ends in two weeks though! Then we will be living with each other and totally get sick of one another (totally joking on that last part).
  • edited December 2011
    I said 2-3 days. It depends on the week. We live 45 mins away from each other now and work completely opposite schedules. I work a regular Mon-Fri 8-4 type job and he works 3pm to 11pm with 2 week days off. So I'll usually stay over on one of his days off so he has his other day off to himself unless he wants me to stay again. I usually stay over at least one weekend night too. We'll probably be moving in together in a few months. I still won't see him much because of our schedules but it will be nice to at least sleep next to him every night for most of the night anyways.
     




  • IrishDreamerIrishDreamer member
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    edited December 2011
    I live with BF, so I do get to see him everyday, but usually, especially in the summer because of our busy schedules, it's a kiss in the morning when I leave, and for anywhere from 1/2 an hr to 3 hrs at night while we eat dinner, veg and go to bed. Our schedules are ridiculously busy, and we don't get to spend nearly as much time together as we would like.
  • ravenrayravenray member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't live with BF but I do see him every day.  He lives 5 mins away so even if I haven't seen him all day I pop over before I go to bed.  :)
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    With the living with the parents 50 miles apart thing, we try to see each other at least once a week.  Whoever has the time off generally heads to the other's house for the night.

    I'm hoping one of us will get a decent job soon so we can move in together.  This is stupid.
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  • Beads921Beads921 member
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    edited December 2011
    We live together, but before that, it was every single day, if only for a couple of hours. I actually think we see each other less now that we live in the same home, just the way our schedules are now.
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  • CASK85CASK85 member
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    edited December 2011
    We live together, and have lived together for almost 2 years now, so we see each other daily. Usually it is for about 30 minutes in the morning and 4 hours before bed at night. There were 5 months when he worked in NYC Monday through Thursday, so we only saw each other on weekends. . . that was hard, but also kind of nice because we really made the time count. Before we lived together we would see each other 2-3 times a week. 
  • edited December 2011
    We don't  live together so we are together from Friday nite to Sunday nite straight thru every once in a while a weekday.  It depends.

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  • edited December 2011
    We have lived together for almost six months, but before that we were long distance for about two years and saw each other twice a month.
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  • edited December 2011
    Since BF doesn't want to live together before we get married...we have separate places. We probably see each other 4-5 times per week.  
  • Ollie08Ollie08 member
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    edited December 2011
    We live together, so we "see" each other every single day. But I have to admit with so much going on and working opposite schedules the only quality time we get is once or twice a week.

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  • SwazzleSwazzle member
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    edited December 2011
    Sean & I live together so we see each other every day.  I actually got my 1st apartment and for an entire month he spent every night there which is why we ended up deciding he should just officially move in (that was 4 years ago in October).  We spend a lot of time together also, we leave the house at the same time in the morning.  He gets done work at 3 & drives home, I get done work at 4 or 5 depending on the day & he picks me up.  Aside from when I go into the city for dinner/drinks with my girlfriends or he's skating with his friends we're pretty much always together.



  • kellyt89kellyt89 member
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    edited December 2011
    We're long distance now so we'll be seeing each other once every 3-4 weeks for the next 6+ months. *le sigh*

    When we were both at school together he was spending every night at my place. So there were multiple days/evenings during the week where we were doing our own thing for most or part of the day but we'd always spend the night together and usually have at least an hour or two of quality time together even when things were really busy. LDR has definitely been an adjustment...
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  • edited December 2011
    We're long distance right now and have been for the past two and a half years, so I see my fiance every 3 months or so depending on whether or not he's able to take leave. I usually build up a week of vacation time and fly out to see him. Hopefully that will change within the next year or so!! I'm ready for the distance to be over!!
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  • deburnindeburnin member
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    edited December 2011
    We live together, but our work schedules keep being opposite so we only get quality time once or twice a week.
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  • ginadogginadog member
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    edited December 2011
    We lived together (brought my first carload over to his house after the proposal), so we see each other daily.

    Before that, even though I lived 1 mile away, I was in school and working so we saw each other at least 4 nights a week. 
  • jorja86jorja86 member
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    edited December 2011
    We just went from long distance to living together. With me working nights, we see each other in the evening before I go to work if we're lucky and he's home really early for him, then again in the morning before he leaves for work/I go to bed. There are some days if one of us is late getting home from work that we don't see each other at all-even living together, which is weird.
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