MOH brought up my Bach party yesterday. She's playing with the idea of going wine tasting and staying down at the place over night. It's 3 hrs away. I truly love the idea, but how do we go around getting a feel if others are interested? Is it ok for me to be asking ppl being that she doesn't know all of them personally? she's going to price it so we have a number to tell ppl.
As much as I love the idea, going off my invite list, not many would be able or want to do that because of the cost either. I mentioned to MOH about this and how several of the girls have since told me they are pregnant so I know they'd be OUT.. She said we can invite some of our other friends that aren't invited to the wedding (everyone knows its a small-ish wedding). However I know we aren't supposed to do this.
I think I know the answer, but would it be wrong to suggest a bridal shower instead of a Bach party????
And what's the time frame before the wedding for a Bach party or bridal shower?? We are both already coordinating our schedules on when this can be done (her request).