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Inviting Pre Cana Mentor Couple?

Em72653Em72653 member
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We really like our pre cana mentor couple. We have such a great time when we get together and discuss marriage and also about our own personal lives. FI and I were wondering if it were ok to invite them to the wedding. Is that odd?

Looking for thoughts so please no judgement posts, thanks! :)
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Re: Inviting Pre Cana Mentor Couple?

  • kristen8040kristen8040 member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think it's odd.  Just be aware that they might not know anyone so make sure you put them at a friendly table if they decide to come.
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  • Em72653Em72653 member
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    edited December 2011
    That's true, thanks for the tip! :)
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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    We have a Pre Cana Mentor couple as well. I am curious, what church are you getting married at, because most churches just do the Pre-Cana weekend...

    We plan on inviting them to our reception, and we aren't very close to them. We just felt it was the right thing to do. I doubt they'd come to the reception, and probably just to the ceremony.
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  • Em72653Em72653 member
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    edited December 2011
    Cindyn - just PMed you.

    I didn't think of just inviting them to the reception. I doubt they will attend tho since we discussed last night how many weddings there are this year and how much money it is all going to cost. So i think I will give them a full invite and them have them choose if they do both or just one. If they do come to the reception, I can bet they woul ddef be alot of fun! :)

    Thanks for the help!
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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yup, that's pretty much what we're doing as well!
    and, we are getting married at the same church! Is Father John marrying you?
    It looks like you are getting married the week after me!
    I pm'd you back as well.
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  • Em72653Em72653 member
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    edited December 2011
    We actually discussed this last night with our couple. I thought Father John was marrying us because we had met with him last summer but our couple told us last night that they would check in with himt o see who the priest was for us for our ceremony. I do hope it is Father John tho, I really do like him :)
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  • lopezalonsolopezalonso member
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    edited December 2011
    We are also meeting with a couple for our pre-cana sessions. They are lovely people and know my FI mom and dad from church so we are planning on inviting them. 
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