Hello Brides to Be and Brides! Things are going smoothly (for once). Our wedding will be here at our new shul and both our old rabbi and our new one will be working on the service together. We are Conservative and will have a traditional Conservative ceremony. We plan on the auf ruf for the Saturday prior (has anyone done this? If so, please tell me about it). We will also be doing the ten'aim. Tis is an old tradition of the engagement where both families agree. We will be doing this on Saturday evening at the Inn with just our fmaily and our old rabbi. Has anyone else done this? I was told we could write our own words to one another since our ceremony is formal. I am curious if any of you are adding something or doing something special for your ceremony or have done. I can officially say I am getting very excited!!!