No s$x till marriage! (from now on) lol

carlowgirl10 · March 2012

Soo..i told FI that 2 months prior to the wedding we wont be having sex, because even though we have before, i want the honeymoon to be like new again.

Its only been 4 days, and already he is teasing me and acting like we JUST started dating. if i wouldve known this i wouldve done it AWHILE ago!! lol

I am definitely loving it, but now it sucks cuz i refuse to do it till the wedding night! lol ugh..!!! lol

ymw6110 · March 2012

We are doing the same! We might give it 4 weeks before though

DianaL616 · March 2012

Stay strong! Lol

mancila60 · March 2012

I have honestly thought about this but everytime I mention it FI gives me this look like I am absolutely crazy!

klw0022 · March 2012

We stopped on Valentine's day, it's been tough, but will be so worth it

levanlaere · March 2012

I have been joking about this but maybe I will follow through!

LOMLBOAT · March 2012

A friend of mine did that the last month before the wedding and she said it was actually a good thing because she was so stressed and didn't have the urge that it took pressure off of her. She didn't feel like she had to for her FI when it was the last thing she wanted to think about.

I've talked to my FI about it and he's not into the idea, but even just the 2 weeks before or something, I think a little break will make the wedding night/honeymoon a little bit more fun

GL ladies, stay strong!

tdmaus · March 2012

Haha! I suggested this with FI a few weeks ago... he was not going for it... i might just try to avoid him the week before the wedding or come up with some excuses (migrane, tired, sick, etc)... haha

RivieraBound · March 2012

Oh hell no. Not for me lol.

My period is scheduled to start the week before so maybe we will abstain then. I can't see going 2 months without. I mean, I did before I dated FI but now, no way...Plus I want our wedding night to last more than 2 seconds. :P

Good luck to you though!

cpm1223 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I have honestly thought about this but everytime I mention it FI gives me this look like I am absolutely crazy!
Posted by mancila60[/QUOTE]

me too!

I actually kind of feel like with all the stress in the weeks leading up to the wedding, it might be good to have some "special" time with FI to help relieve the stress, for both of us!

mandi921vh · March 2012

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[QUOTE]<strong>Oh hell no.</strong> Not for me lol. My period is scheduled to start the week before so maybe we will abstain then. I can't see going 2 months without. I mean, I did before I dated FI but now, no way...Plus I want our wedding night to last more than 2 seconds. :P Good luck to you though! :)
Posted by RivieraBound[/QUOTE]

<div>I completely agree!</div>

lnvane00 · March 2012

NO way! That is all.......

lnvane00 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Oh hell no. Not for me lol. My period is scheduled to start the week before so maybe we will abstain then. I can't see going 2 months without. I mean, I did before I dated FI but now, no way...<strong>Plus I want our wedding night to last more than 2 seconds</strong>. :P Good luck to you though! :)
Posted by RivieraBound[/QUOTE]

Bahaha! This exactly!!

carlowgirl10 · March 2012

if it only lasts 2 seconds..we will just have to go again! lol.

it takes me awhile..soo if he cant hold back i cant hold a grudge! lol

bpphoto785 · March 2012

I've been thinking about it. We have a friend's wedding April 28th and we'll be in a hotel so I'm thinking about making that our last "single" fling. I'm hoping a little break will help make the wedding night extra special. After their wedding I'll get my visit from Aunt Flo plus we were in the "once a week" category so it's not like he'll be missing out on tons of sex!

S0095042 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I have honestly thought about this but everytime I mention it FI gives me this look like I am absolutely crazy!
Posted by mancila60[/QUOTE]

mine too...he says we can't until after his bday (early April)...I was like, that's only 1 month!<em> what a scarafice!</em> lol we'll see what we do...

SunshineShades · March 2012

I had thought about this once upon a time. FI definitely wouldnt go for it if I suggested though. Then a friend pointed out the whole "you'll be exhausted on your wedding night and wont want to have sex" .... so that idea is out anyways. Weddings around here go til 1 or 2 am often.
My sister and brother in law keep telling us to find alone time between the ceremony and reception and to just 'lift my dress' lol.

candice245 · March 2012

We are doing this too! I have wanted to go off birth control forever, cause it messes with my system soo much, and condoms just do not work for us. So.. I took my last pill today, and we will not be doing it until after the wedding because I don't want to get pregnant before!! yay.. but not. lol. it is so bitter sweet!

Killa2979 · March 2012

Stay strong :-)

Celticrebelgirl · March 2012

we have mentioned it...and lately we are maybe once a week..just however our jobs leave us energy wise..but I have a feelin it might change soon cuz Im getting a tattoo monday and its gonna drive him crazy Lol...we are spendin the night before apart...i said at least 2 weeks of none..ive done it already a few times lol...plus we have early flight for honeymoon too..so maybe a lil somethin somethin once we rest in hotel before we head out to disney parks lol..

I cant go long though..much less FI so we shall see

DianaL616 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Plus I want our wedding night to last more than 2 seconds. Posted by RivieraBound[/QUOTE]

<div>lmao! </div><div>
</div><div>We won't be having sex the week before our wedding....only because my parents and brother are staying with us most of the week so they don't have to pay for a hotel the entire week. Yeah so that's a total mood killer haha</div>

toothpastechica · March 2012

Our pastor requested we abstain until the wedding during our pre-marital....we are....mostly. Hahaha, I know its driving FI crazy, but I do think it keeps some element of excitment and commitment (although it wont be our first time) for after the party is over, so looking forward to that.

Egrauvog · March 2012

We haven't had sex since a month or so after we got engaged!!! So its been about 6 months

TheFutureMrsB81 · March 2012

No and no. But good luck to you lol !!!

We only have sex one a week or every other week now anyways, so everytime is like new for me lol.

sfylstra · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I had thought about this once upon a time. FI definitely wouldnt go for it if I suggested though. <strong>Then a friend pointed out the whole "you'll be exhausted on your wedding night and wont want to have sex" .... so that idea is out anyways. Weddings around here go til 1 or 2 am often</strong>. My sister and brother in law keep telling us to find alone time between the ceremony and reception and to just 'lift my dress' lol.
Posted by SunshineShades[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div><strong>THIS!</strong> I'm afraid we won't be "doing it" that night anyway... So no point in building up to something we'll fall asleep before :) But as some PP have said, I think that it might help with my stress level in those couple of weeks before to have our alone time! </div>

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