My FI has this friend S whom he has been friends with for awhile. I asked FI if he wanted to invite S and his wife to the wedding and he kept saying maybe. Well our invites went out and I received no address for S so he didn't get one. FI just texted me and said "I'm going over to S house. I invited him to the wedding." WHAT?! You did what? I have no issue with inviting S to the wedding. I really like him and his wife and it's not like we don't have the space or funds to accommodate them at the wedding but I feel like such a jerk sending them a formal invitation when our RSVP date is next Thursday.
I love my FI with all of my heart and he really means well but man.. sometimes he just really doesn't get it!