African American Weddings

I'm bummed: BM shoes

So I was up on the phone and internet until like 3:30a this morning. My cousin found the perfect shoe to go with the BM's dresses. I liked it so much and it matches my dress too so I'm ordering the same shoe in white. I email my other cousin and BFF this morning with the shoe. BFF is on board. Other cousin responds "That definitely won't work for me. Sorry."

Now let me clarify her statement. In HS she had surgery on her foot and she only refers to its appearance as a "malfunction." She always wears socks so I have no idea what it looks like. She even mentioned early on that she had shoe restrictions. I wasn't too worried because everyone was just going to wear whatever shoe they could find. But since all of us will be wearing this shoe now I feel it will look DUMB if she has on something else. So I ask is it a really big issue and exactly what style is she looking to wear. She says anything with closed toe. Well the dresses are short summer dresses and unless she just wears flats I don't think a closed pump will look right. I can't be too mad at her because I don't want to expose anyone's self conscious issues for all the world to see at my expense. I just don't even know if this is a big issue or just something small. She won't go into detail. What kind of shoe will go with ours now? I probably sound selfish but I'm really bummed about this. Please post any shoe suggestions...


**This is the BM shoe. They are wearing gray dresses. I'm getting white shoe. All of our dresses have one shoulder with big flowers so we love the shoe with our dresses*
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