Alrighty Ladies thinking about this is giving me a major headache so I've come here for some advice.
Facts behind my question:::
Current Apt. Lease Ends: April 30th, 2011
Wedding Date: May 28th, 2011
Current Employment Ends: June 30th, 2011
FI reports to the base we will be the next 4 years : August, 2011
As you can see everything seems to be ending just a little too early. haha
FI and I are trying to decide our housing and when I should move and where.
After my Apartment lease ends I was planning on moving home with my Mom about an hour away from my job and commuting for the last month or two. I originally had hoped to ship my property to my FI and then join him after the wedding. However, he will be finishing up his training and I moving twice within 3 months while unemployed seems irresponsible IMO.
Would do you Ladies think of the following Options
(1) Move to where FI (right after the wedding) is finishing training and be with him - I mean we will be married -- unemployed for a couple months
(2) Move to FI when my lease is up in April spend a couple extra months with him however most likely remain unemployed as I will have to travel back for the wedding and will only be there for a few months
(3) Move to where FI will
be, right after the wedding
that will give me a couple months to get settled, and find work before FI joins me. (This doesn't solve my problem of what to do with my property for the month in limbo)
(4) Finish out my job
and move to where FI will be, that will give me A month to get settled and find work before FI joins me. (This doesn't solve my problem of what to do with my property for the 2 months in limbo)
IMO #1 and #2 are out but perhaps if I hear a convincing arugment I may reconsider
major help needed! TIA!