My Fiance wants to try and involve close friends who are involved in the bridal industry to provide with assistance on our wedding day such as the baker is a family friend and amazing, so is the florist has been doing stuff for my family since the 1970. The violinest at the ceremony is a member of my church I have known for a long time, and our photographer is one of the best in the state happends to be one of our friends from highschools mother. The issue is he wants to use his friend as the dj. Now he is currenlty a traveling club dj with no wedding experience or lighting experience. He has already asked him to do the wedding before we even got engaged. However I have a friend of mine who is one of the best wedding DJ's in the tri state area does all the lighting (uplighting on the walls, pinspot lighting on the centerpieces, and has a coordinator at no additional charge to help with day of.) I have known him for years and would get an amazing deal. But my fiance will not budge when it comes to this and everyone is against what he currently wants. Is this something that I should just consider a losing battle and move on or should I revisit this now because I am afraid that if he does change his mind my friend will already be booked.