We are planning a casual wedding, summer, outdoors, with tented/inside reception. We're going with the casual summer theme and want our guests to be comfortable and have fun above all else. The question is... is it ok if the groom is scruffy for the wedding? I prefer him with the scruff, he's a 5 o'clock shadow one hour after he shaved kind of guy and he looks a lot younger clean shaven. He prefers it. The problem is that I'm sure some of the rents will have a problem with it. Do we go for it anyway or is it pretty tacky? Thanks!