Me and my FI have this disagreement and I need some perspective from those brides who are getting married a 2nd time.
This is my 1st wedding and my FI's 2nd. He says that he cannot ask his best friend "Joe" to be his best man again because he was the best man in his first wedding. "Joe" is my FI's absolute and bestest best friend and we all love each other and hang out often and go on vacations together with him and his wife. I would love it if "Joe" were standing up there beaming and smiling alongside my beaming and smiling FI. But instead my FI feels he should ask his other friend "Jim", not because he particularly wants him to be his best man but because he feels he cannot ask "Joe". "Jim" is a nice guy and all, but not as good friends with my FI and myself as Joe is.
So what do you think? If a person is a best man once and his friend gets married a 2nd is it bad form if he's the best man again?