In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:7fdccc54-227c-4ab2-b748-67d1400c05cd">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Ohhh I read that totally wrong. Posted by Smash Adams[/QUOTE]
I guess its just that unless someone is getting beat or their H is constantly emotionally abusing them, then everyone should stfu about it.
My H can be a mvtherfvcker sometimes and so can I. I just love how everyone pretends that their SO has never called them a biiitch or flipped out on them.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:d5582278-5298-465a-bd0c-f4340f625575">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:d5582278-5298-465a-bd0c-f4340f625575">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:9d6c6a35-342b-488a-b4b4-7dada78d379b">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]XH told me I was "being a cvnt" once. That was a bad day. Posted by Smash Adams[/QUOTE]
Some people just fight like that. I dont think its a huge deal.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:2b1e18cd-e4fe-49a7-a4c6-001fab6ded0e">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Some people just fight like that. I dont think its a huge deal. Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE] I don't generally either, but I do think it's a big deal for people who then come onto a message board and post about it. I didn't post about that day because it's just how he fights. Turns out, he's a big asshole regardless, but that's not the point.<div> </div><div>I don't know where I'm going with this. I'm bored.</div>
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:d5582278-5298-465a-bd0c-f4340f625575">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
aren't you also supposed to apologize for everything? eh?
In Response to Re:AYG:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG:XH told me I was "being a cvnt" once. nbsp;That was a bad day.Posted by Smash AdamsSome people just fight like that.nbsp; I dont think its a huge deal. Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE] I fight like that. I was pissed recently and shouted at adam to go fhuck himself and slammed a door. Usually if I slam doors he just leavs me to cool down but he actually came in to say that was really shitty of me.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:79cfcad3-29cd-4f48-8374-fb470bc7c7be">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]Oh hey, did ciara gbck again? I can't recall if I've seen her since she got flamed, though she might just have another new sn? Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE] I've seen her on the GBCN boards. She has a different sn over there.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:4f4b4dcc-dae5-48de-954b-cc0999d11219">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re:AYG: I fight like that. I was pissed recently and shouted at adam to go fhuck himself and slammed a door. Usually if I slam doors he just leavs me to cool down but he actually came in to say that was really shitty of me. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I was so pissed at H last night that I locked him out of the house, lol. After I called him a motherfvker. Cause im 12 sometimes.
Ciara came back with a new SN and tried to pretend she was new. But left the same sig or something. It was a normal ciara clusterfuck.
And, seriously. H and I don't fight. Maybe I should change my answer on the other poll to that. It drives me crazy that he won't just tell me he's pissed.
I've noticed a lot of couples that fight hard also love hard, if that makes sense. Like they're both just really passionate people and are 110% whether they're mad or happy. I'm not sure how healthy it is, but it usually works for them. Then there are just the a-holes, which I think is different.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:e8c16ff4-12d3-41c9-9d4b-e071c8114791">Re:AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re:AYG : I was so pissed at H last night that I locked him out of the house, lol. After I called him a motherfvker. Cause im 12 sometimes. Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE] Ha! I've done this before too.
H knows I'm really mad when I stop swearing and call him something like dillhole or penis face.
In Response to Re:AYG:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:AYG:In Response to Re:AYG: I fight like that. I was pissed recently and shouted at adam to go fhuck himself and slammed a door. Usually if I slam doors he just leavs me to cool down but he actually came in to say that was really shitty of me.Posted by NebbI was so pissed at H last night that I locked him out of the house, lol.nbsp; After I called him a motherfvker.nbsp; Cause im 12 sometimes. Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE] Lol I once stopped the car and screamed at him to get the fhuck out. Next week is our 4yr wedding anniversary and I think everyone is surprised!
You can complain about your H all you want on here. Just keep in mind that TK memories NEVER fade. And dont' be surprised if people assume your H is a jackass from then on. Because you're probably not also talking about how awesome he is. So if we only get one side of the story, that's what everyone will remember. You know?
In Response to Re:AYG:[QUOTE]Ciara came back with a new SN and tried to pretend she was new. But left the same sig or something. It was a normal ciara clusterfuck.And, seriously. H and I don't fight. Maybe I should change my answer on the other poll to that. It drives me crazy that he won't just tell me he's pissed. Posted by StephJ[/QUOTE] No, after that, she hasn't been around since we flamed her for that.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:dbfb813b-83a7-49e7-88ae-c408fd0759e3">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : DUDE YOU DID??? I did not even read it. My ass is getting handed to me at work. Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:d2a2320f-9785-4d69-a953-6d59e6c52f27">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]Ciara came back with a new SN and tried to pretend she was new. But left the same sig or something. It was a normal ciara clusterfuck. And, <strong><u>seriously. H and I don't fight. Maybe I should change my answer on the other poll to that. It drives me crazy that he won't just tell me he's pissed.</u></strong> Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
Thats my point though. Some people are brawlers and some are not. H and I are brawlers. We fight it out and then move on. Sometimes those fights just happen to be really loud and full of cursing, lol.
But cmon, you people know me. Would you think I argue any differently?
Point is, people are different, so just because your and your H dont do it, doesnt mean its some red flag for others.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:dbfb813b-83a7-49e7-88ae-c408fd0759e3">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : DUDE YOU DID??? I did not even read it. My ass is getting handed to me at work. Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
Calm your tits. Dont get too excited. I did call you a twat.
Oh, I totally agree with everything you said Blue. I think the issue is that I do WANT to just freak out once in awhile and get it over with. And H doesn't. So then I get pissed at him for making me pissed at him.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:f2baacd6-26d4-49bd-b4dc-deca2af09b9c">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Thats my point though. Some people are brawlers and some are not. H and I are brawlers. We fight it out and then move on. Sometimes those fights just happen to be really loud and full of cursing, lol. But cmon, you people know me. Would you think I argue any differently? <strong>Point is, people are different, so just because your and your H dont do it, doesnt mean its some red flag for others. </strong>Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
ITA, but if Angel isn't a brawler, and her FI is, does that make a difference? For you and your H it works, because like Nicole was saying people who are passionate, are passionate, mad or happy. If one side of the equation isn't, then I think there's an issue.
All that to say I have no idea how Angel fights, but I know for me, I couldn't be in a relationship with a brawler because I'm not one.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:183bf5e9-8586-42ea-a2bf-3b797d3d093a">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]Oh, I totally agree with everything you said Blue. I think the issue is that I do WANT to just freak out once in awhile and get it over with. And H doesn't. So then I get pissed at him for making me pissed at him. and with that, thanks for the therapy session. Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
This is how I am too, Steph. I wanna fight it out, H doesn't. You know how hard it is to fight with someone who doesn't want to fight? It's annoying.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-33?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:1847c76e-2fda-4d1d-8766-38ce99f794f2Post:d4394d38-4107-40c2-b584-90c6ce464d2e">Re: AYG</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : ITA, but if Angel isn't a brawler, and her FI is, does that make a difference? For you and your H it works, because like Nicole was saying people who are passionate, are passionate, mad or happy. If one side of the equation isn't, then I think there's an issue. All that to say I have no idea how Angel fights, but I know for me, I couldn't be in a relationship with a brawler because I'm not one. Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
Being in a relationship with someone who's not a brawler is so weird for me. BF is all "do you want to talk about your feelings?" and I'm "nope, I'm over it, time to move on, I yelled at you and now I feel better." I don't know how to handle this touchy-feely shiiit.
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
Well on the same hand though, just because you and your H DO do it (lol, do do.) doesn't mean it's NOT a red flag for others.
Ben and I don't brawl. If he flew off the handle one day, yelled at me and called me an asshole or a biiitch or cvnt, it would really, really suck. He's never said anything like that to me.
Re: AYG
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Ohhh I read that totally wrong.
Posted by Smash Adams[/QUOTE]
I guess its just that unless someone is getting beat or their H is constantly emotionally abusing them, then everyone should stfu about it.
My H can be a mvtherfvcker sometimes and so can I. I just love how everyone pretends that their SO has never called them a biiitch or flipped out on them.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
[QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Dirty Commie
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Sure, blame Canada.
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[QUOTE]XH told me I was "being a cvnt" once. That was a bad day.
Posted by Smash Adams[/QUOTE]
Some people just fight like that. I dont think its a huge deal.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Some people just fight like that. I dont think its a huge deal.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
I don't generally either, but I do think it's a big deal for people who then come onto a message board and post about it. I didn't post about that day because it's just how he fights. Turns out, he's a big asshole regardless, but that's not the point.<div>
</div><div>I don't know where I'm going with this. I'm bored.</div>
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
[QUOTE]I'm canadian. By nature canadians complain about everything. Don't hate on me for my nationality.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
aren't you also supposed to apologize for everything? eh?
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I fight like that. I was pissed recently and shouted at adam to go fhuck himself and slammed a door. Usually if I slam doors he just leavs me to cool down but he actually came in to say that was really shitty of me.
[QUOTE]Oh hey, did ciara gbck again? I can't recall if I've seen her since she got flamed, though she might just have another new sn?
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I've seen her on the GBCN boards. She has a different sn over there.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:AYG: I fight like that. I was pissed recently and shouted at adam to go fhuck himself and slammed a door. Usually if I slam doors he just leavs me to cool down but he actually came in to say that was really shitty of me.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I was so pissed at H last night that I locked him out of the house, lol. After I called him a motherfvker. Cause im 12 sometimes.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
And, seriously. H and I don't fight. Maybe I should change my answer on the other poll to that. It drives me crazy that he won't just tell me he's pissed.
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Bio, now with married pics...
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:AYG : I was so pissed at H last night that I locked him out of the house, lol. After I called him a motherfvker. Cause im 12 sometimes.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
Ha! I've done this before too.
H knows I'm really mad when I stop swearing and call him something like dillhole or penis face.
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
Lol I once stopped the car and screamed at him to get the fhuck out. Next week is our 4yr wedding anniversary and I think everyone is surprised!
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No, after that, she hasn't been around since we flamed her for that.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : DUDE YOU DID??? I did not even read it. My ass is getting handed to me at work.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
stop talking about work, you damn vendor.
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[QUOTE]Ciara came back with a new SN and tried to pretend she was new. But left the same sig or something. It was a normal ciara clusterfuck. And, <strong><u>seriously. H and I don't fight. Maybe I should change my answer on the other poll to that. It drives me crazy that he won't just tell me he's pissed.</u></strong>
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
Thats my point though. Some people are brawlers and some are not. H and I are brawlers. We fight it out and then move on. Sometimes those fights just happen to be really loud and full of cursing, lol.
But cmon, you people know me. Would you think I argue any differently?
Point is, people are different, so just because your and your H dont do it, doesnt mean its some red flag for others.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : DUDE YOU DID??? I did not even read it. My ass is getting handed to me at work.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
Calm your tits. Dont get too excited. I did call you a twat.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
and with that, thanks for the therapy session.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Thats my point though. Some people are brawlers and some are not. H and I are brawlers. We fight it out and then move on. Sometimes those fights just happen to be really loud and full of cursing, lol. But cmon, you people know me. Would you think I argue any differently? <strong>Point is, people are different, so just because your and your H dont do it, doesnt mean its some red flag for others.
</strong>Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
ITA, but if Angel isn't a brawler, and her FI is, does that make a difference? For you and your H it works, because like Nicole was saying people who are passionate, are passionate, mad or happy. If one side of the equation isn't, then I think there's an issue.
All that to say I have no idea how Angel fights, but I know for me, I couldn't be in a relationship with a brawler because I'm not one.
[QUOTE]Oh, I totally agree with everything you said Blue. I think the issue is that I do WANT to just freak out once in awhile and get it over with. And H doesn't. So then I get pissed at him for making me pissed at him. and with that, thanks for the therapy session.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
This is how I am too, Steph. I wanna fight it out, H doesn't. You know how hard it is to fight with someone who doesn't want to fight? It's annoying.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : ITA, but if Angel isn't a brawler, and her FI is, does that make a difference? For you and your H it works, because like Nicole was saying people who are passionate, are passionate, mad or happy. If one side of the equation isn't, then I think there's an issue. All that to say I have no idea how Angel fights, but I know for me, I couldn't be in a relationship with a brawler because I'm not one.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
But its her life.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
"Smash's balls are the biggest balls of them all." -AATB
H & I fight, but we don't brawl. He'll at least talk to me when he's upset or pissed.
Ben and I don't brawl. If he flew off the handle one day, yelled at me and called me an asshole or a biiitch or cvnt, it would really, really suck. He's never said anything like that to me.