My FMIL came up to me last night and told me that FFIL had been handing out the invitations to his co-workers that were invited and they kept telling him that they were the most beautiful invitations they'd ever seen. Makes me feel really good that FI and I stuck to our gut and did what we wanted. We didn't settle. I knew that I couldn't find what I wanted in the traditional books in stores, so I went to etsy and found the perfect set. Makes me giddy.