I hear from everyone that the bride & groom never get a chance to eat at their reception. I really want to sit down & enjoy our meal rather than discovering half way thru the dance that I'm starving & the caterer is gone! Any advice on making sure that my groom & I get to eat something? We're having a buffet - someone suggested that I get a friend or bridesmaid to go get our plates and bring them to us....is that rude to ask of someone? Any other tips?