I have a bridesmaid who is mad that my fiance and I have decided not to have kids at the wedding. She has teenagers and a toddler. She has been difficult from the beginning and has made several snarky comments about the wedding plans and even gave my other bridesmaids and maid of honor a difficult time when they were planning the bridal shower and bachelorette party. She has been nothing but judgmental and critical of me since I asked her to be in my wedding. She stayed at my house the weekend of the bridal shower and was completely nasty. She has sent me attacking emails about this.
Do I ask her to step down to prevent her negatiivty from bringing down the wedding? Do I try to ignore it and hope she doesn't ruin the big day? Help!