My FI & I had decided that his younger sister would be the only one in the wedding party. Well, I have 2 brothers and he has 1.
(a little back story) My FI's brother doesn't really like me. From the very begining of our relationship has stated multiple times that I am only set out to ruin my Fi's life. That all I want to do is tie him down (no pun intended) and ruin his college years amongst other things. Almost everytime I see my FBIL he insults me and then pretends to be sorry. There has been less in the last few months but nonetheless the words he has said to me have been very hurtful.
My FI's brother called my FMIL complaining that he was not a GM let alone Best Man. My FMIL sat us down last night & stated that we we're not being quite fair with him. As I spoke with my brothers this moring they asked how things for the wedding going & I said well but that we kinda had a complaint that my FI's brother because was not in the WP so we added him and friend that I had been wanting to add anyways. Right away both of them let me know how upset that they we're not in the WP.
I never wanted my FI to feel forced to have my brothers in the WP & I thought that if we left out all the brothers none of them could complain he's this & I am not.
So now what? Do I stick to my guns & say no brothers ir do I enter all 3 in the WP?
I honestly don't know what to do.
Thanks Ladies.
-L