What is your worst fear?

20pearls16 · June 2012

I stole this from the August board, but I thought it was a good post.

What is your worst fear about your wedding day? I am afraid it is going to rain on our outside venue. I am also afraid that the mesquitoes will eat me alive. My last fear is that everything won't flow right and I really can't afford a DOC.

footballwife77 · June 2012

That i go out drinking the night before, get trashed, and sleep in the day of or am sick till 1 in the afternoon. So i'm going to be on my bestest behavior and NOT go out for a "quick drink".

rowenac82 · June 2012

My worst fear is that no one will come. We have a 100 minimum guarantee and I fear that only 40 people will show up and we will have to eat the loss on the remaining 60 that we already paid for. Most of my guests live in NY and I am getting married in AZ, although we are inviting around 180 (this number includes international guests as well), I still have this feeling that we aren't going to meet our minimum.

I also fear that things will not run on schedule. I guess I have been part of too many weddings that were a bit chaotic.

I fear that everyone will be bored at the reception and leave early.

MissusD1116 · June 2012

That not that many folks will come or they may eat and leave!

[Deleted User] · June 2012

all that dna. the idea of a hundred people kissing my cheek absolutely squicks me out. hugs, what's wrong with hugs people?? lol!!

thedivav · June 2012

Worse fear came true

Dannitra01 · June 2012

Bad Weather!! We live in South Florida and are getting married in July (Hurricane season). Also, I know it may seem petty, but I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, don't want my "monthly visitor" to be here during the wedding. Besides it ruining our wedding night, I usually get really crabby and nauseated, not exactly a good look for the blushing bride.

shiravduncan · June 2012

I fear that everyone at the reception eat and then go home. I really want people to stick around, party, and have a great time! It seems like a trend at all the weddings I've been to recently that people leave the reception early.

Carla1019 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]Worse fear came true
Posted by thedivav[/QUOTE]

You can't just post this and not give specifics....what happened??

My worse fear is also that many people will not show up or the opposite, many people bring uninvited guests and they don't have anywhere to sit.

keyaira04 · June 2012

That hubby will not be at the alter.

I know he will, but because I've experienced an ex-boyfriend pass away, I get scared.

egammo3 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]<strong>Bad Weather!!</strong> We live in South Florida and are <strong>getting married in July (Hurricane season).</strong> Also, I know it may seem petty, but I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY,<strong> don't want my "monthly visitor" to</strong> <strong>be here during the wedding</strong>. Besides it ruining our wedding night, <strong>I usually get really crabby and nauseated</strong>, not exactly a good look for the blushing bride.
Posted by Dannitra01[/QUOTE]

All of this exactly! However, I am prayerful and have tremendous faith that all of us will do just fine.

Dannibear86 · June 2012

That I trip down the aisle ( I am notoriously clumsy lol)
that everyone invited shows up ( I know that's bad but we are hoping for about 20 no's)
and that ppl will be bored and leave early.

thedivav · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : You can't just post this and not give specifics....what happened?? My worse fear is also that many people will not show up or the opposite, many people bring uninvited guests and they don't have anywhere to sit.
Posted by Carla1019[/QUOTE]

My father passed 3 weeks ago
That he would not be at my wedding

TL25 · June 2012

omg lol at clumsy Danni. I can laugh because I'm clumsy too! My worse fear is that the reception won't be as popping as I want it to be. I love dancing and everyone else better join in with me on the dance floor. I also fear the "monthly visitor" as well. Lastly I fear no shows, it is too much money going into this day and I'll be dammed if people let my hard working dollars go down the drain. Ugh woosah I think I covered my top 3 fears I'm sure I have a few more lol!

nicknuttnc · June 2012

My worst fear is that no one will show up because it is a DW. I am so scared that we will not have it all paid for by then....

keyaira04 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : My father passed 3 weeks ago That he would not be at my wedding
Posted by thedivav[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I'm sorry...

</div>

footballwife77 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : I'm sorry...
Posted by keyaira04[/QUOTE]

I am also sorry (hugs)

RealHappyGal · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : My father passed 3 weeks ago That he would not be at my wedding
Posted by thedivav[/QUOTE]

Mine is that FI's mom will pass away close to the wedding

on the more selfish level its that the weather will be bad. I love the outdoor part of my venue

saharnshard · June 2012

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[QUOTE]Bad Weather!! We live in South Florida and are getting married in July (Hurricane season). Also, I know it may seem petty, but I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, don't want my "monthly visitor" to be here during the wedding. Besides it ruining our wedding night, I usually get really crabby and nauseated, not exactly a good look for the blushing bride.
Posted by Dannitra01[/QUOTE]

Are you on the birth control pill? If so, you can manipulate it a little so that you won't be on your period.

Misskin · June 2012

People will RSVP and not show up. Wasting my money is the ultimate NO NO!

kaimah · June 2012

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[QUOTE]People will RSVP and not show up. Wasting my money is the ultimate NO NO!
Posted by Misskin[/QUOTE]

<div>This! </div>

MrsBoss2012 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : Are you on the birth control pill? If so, you can manipulate it a little so that you won't be on your period.
Posted by saharnshard[/QUOTE]

Uhhh please explain!! Because I started this past Sunday and I'm normally pretty regular. I'm a Sunday starter with my pills. Welllllll...since I'm only 3 months away I went and did the count and I am supposed to start ON my wedding day which is a Sunday!

Carla1019 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : My father passed 3 weeks ago That he would not be at my wedding
Posted by thedivav[/QUOTE]

Oh Hun, I'm sorry to hear this. I will pray that you feel his presence on your special day.

[Deleted User] · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : Uhhh please explain!! Because I started this past Sunday and I'm normally pretty regular. I'm a Sunday starter with my pills. Welllllll...since I'm only 3 months away I went and did the count and I am supposed to start ON my wedding day which is a Sunday!
Posted by MrsBoss2012[/QUOTE]

the last 7 days in the pack are placebos, they should be a different color, blue or green, skip the sugar pills and go straight into the next pack.

footballwife77 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : Uhhh please explain!! Because I started this past Sunday and I'm normally pretty regular. I'm a Sunday starter with my pills. Welllllll...since I'm only 3 months away I went and did the count and I am supposed to start ON my wedding day which is a Sunday!
Posted by MrsBoss2012[/QUOTE]

skip the last week of "sugar pills". go straight to the new pack. When we were younger my girlfriend would go on vacations A LOT and do this all the time.

M1ssJ · June 2012

My top 3 fears:

1) I get cold feet and run away

2) That its the most boring wedding ever

FutureMzHayden · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What is your worst fear? : I am also sorry (hugs)
Posted by footballwife77[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm sorry as well!!</div>

20pearls16 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]My top 3 fears: 1) I get cold feet and run away 2) That its the most boring wedding ever
Posted by M1ssJ[/QUOTE]

Ummm what's the third lol

sheikscorpio88 · June 2012

I have so many! I'm afraid that the music for the ceremony will be messed up. I'm afraid that things will run late. I'm also scared that my wedding will be boring or people will leave early and that I won't really enjoy myself. Oh and that my dress or the girls dresses get damaged. Ugh! (Ok now I have to bind all of these things from happening in the name of Jesus!!!) lol

FutureMzHayden · June 2012

That wont of the vendors (flowers) wont do what I asked her. That I won't come out of the dressing room. And that the food will be nasty

staten2012 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]That hubby will not be at the alter. I know he will, but because I've experienced an ex-boyfriend pass away, I get scared.
Posted by keyaira04[/QUOTE]

this is mine too. i have deep issues with accepting the fact he even wants to marry me. i have the "runaway bride" complex and have called off a few engagements as a result. now i'm afraid karma is going to come back and bite me in the butt, even though the feelings are unfounded and utterly laughable...I still worry... :/

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