My FI and I got engaged about a month ago and we are planning a very small ceremony, where we are inviting 3 guest each. Our wedding is in about 2 months. We haven't announced our engagement, as we are fairly private, hence our small ceremony. So, we plan on informing our guest about a month in advance of the wedding. With that being said, I have some questions! 1. With the way we are announcing our marriage and with the small number of guest, is it a good idea to generate invitations? 2. Is it a good idea to have a wedding cake with such a small group? 3. As we will be hosting our wedding in a surrounding state, about 4 hours away and again we have such a small guest list, what do you think is appropriate for the 'reception'? It's not a HUGE event, so to be honest, I do not wish to spend too much time with our guest after the ceremony. I want to spend time with my husband, but of course I know that its rude to not have anything following the ceremony, so suggestions are welcomed. Thank you!