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Wedding Etiquette Forum
maccor16
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What to do?
I've read a lot on this board and I know that you should never invite a guest to a wedding related party or event if they are not invited to the wedding but what if one of the bridesmaids have invited someone to the Bachelorette party who is not invited to the wedding? Now they also seem to be pushing for me to invite her to the wedding as well. =/
A littler background is that I went to hs with this girl we were never good friends we would hang out in big groups that is about it. All my bridesmaids were a lot closer with her than I ever was. Then she picked up and moved to Florida and did not tell anyone she was leaving and did not keep in contact with anyone. Then all of a sudden two weeks ago she's back for good she says.
I have nothing against this girl it is just the fact the wedding is next month and invites have been out. I am at a loss because I do not know how to handle this. Do I have to invite her now because my bridesmaids went and invited her to the Bachelorette party?
A littler background is that I went to hs with this girl we were never good friends we would hang out in big groups that is about it. All my bridesmaids were a lot closer with her than I ever was. Then she picked up and moved to Florida and did not tell anyone she was leaving and did not keep in contact with anyone. Then all of a sudden two weeks ago she's back for good she says.
I have nothing against this girl it is just the fact the wedding is next month and invites have been out. I am at a loss because I do not know how to handle this. Do I have to invite her now because my bridesmaids went and invited her to the Bachelorette party?
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Re: What to do?
[QUOTE]I say invite her (as long as budget/space allows it). Your friends have clearly accepted her back into your social circle (so much that they want her to be a part of YOUR wedding), so chances are, she's going to be a part of all other social events in the future. You'll probably be seeing this girl a lot more now that she's back. You might become a lot closer with her & feel awkward in 6 months or so when you realize she was left out of your wedding.
Posted by ghowlett[/QUOTE]
Our wedding is on the smaller side 90 people most are family, I know if I was to invite her my Dad would not be happy for me to add another person, and my FI said flat out we are not invinting her he is not a huge fan of her. Maybe if I was going to be living in the area I might feel that way but I will be living an hour and a half away from there so I don't think I will see her much.