well, we are 14 days out until the wedding and nothing has gone well. unfortunately, 2 days ago my grandfather passed away and it has been incredibly hard on me. one thing he told me the night he died was that my FI was truly blessed to marry me and that he would be dancing with me at my wedding, even though he knew he would pass soon. i love him so much and he will be incredibly missed. we have the service tomorrow and the funeral is sunday. i take comfort in knowing that he is now at peace with his wife of 57 years, my grandma Lila. towards the end, he was yelling for her and telling us he just wanted to be with his wife. i will love them both and know that they will be at my wedding with me, but it is just so hard to let go.