I have two very good friends from college and cannot decide which one should be my MOH. Well, that's not exactly the case. I know which one I would like to be my MOH (A), but it may cause a melt-down from the other friend (B). Ultimately, it comes down to this: I can tell friend A anything and we are always there for each other though we don't hang out as often since we don't live near each other. Friend B and I hang out a lot and are very good friends, but she does not open up at all and act like a normal BF. I basically have already told friend A that I would like her to be my MOH, but she has even come back to me and said that she would understand if I needed to make friend B MOH so as to not cause that melt-down. I know the answer is that Friend B needs to grow up and I should make Friend A my MOH - but I need help to know this is what I should do and how to handle the fall-out from Friend B!