I'm listening to a 90s pop station again (surprise surprise). And Brandy and Monica have brought up a question I'd like to ask you all.
Have you ever fought with another girl over a guy? I remember a BUNCH of us are in relationships with fellas that were coming right out of another relationship. Tell stories. Please.
Re: You need to give it up...that boy is mine.
I haz a planning bio
But no, I've never really fought over a guy, nor had any guys fight over me.
She kinda loves us now, it's cute
Yea. I once stole someone's prom date, but as I saw it--he was mine first.
We'd been peas in a pod before that. We spent every waking moment together. After they started dating, I never heard from them again. I figured it was just "new relationship syndrome" and we'd all hang out again. Nope. I was a third wheel before, and now I wasn't even a wheel. I decided to just let it go. I moved away a few months later and didn't really hear from them again. That was in 2008.
Last summer, A asked if I'd officiate their wedding. At first, I was honored, but then she said, "You were instrumental in getting us together, and I have so many happy memories of that summer." Well, I didn't have any happy memories, since she ended up with my crush and then they tossed me away, so like hell I was going to officiate their wedding. I was happy for them, honestly, but I just didn't feel like doing it after A drudged that up.
[QUOTE]I had a hardcore crush on my friend, P. My friend (A) knew about it and didn't do anything to pursue him. He pursued her, though. She kept denying there was anything going on, but then they were dating. We'd been peas in a pod before that. We spent every waking moment together. After they started dating, I never heard from them again. I figured it was just "new relationship syndrome" and we'd all hang out again. Nope. I was a third wheel before, and now I wasn't even a wheel. I decided to just let it go. I moved away a few months later and didn't really hear from them again. That was in 2008. Last summer, A asked if I'd officiate their wedding. At first, I was honored, but then she said, "You were instrumental in getting us together, and I have so many happy memories of that summer." Well, I didn't have any happy memories, since she ended up with my crush and then they tossed me away, so like hell I was going to officiate their wedding. I was happy for them, honestly, but I just didn't feel like doing it after A drudged that up.
Posted by eirwyn[/QUOTE]
AW!!! In college I dated a guy, broke up with him, then he dated my best friend and she and I were at odds for over a year. When they broke up, we started being able to be friendly again. Now she is my MOH. Every time I recall the moment I found out they were an item, my stomach hurts. I told you guys--I HATE sharing.
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One time there was this guy I really liked and he ended up hitting it off with one of my friends but they were so cute together and she was the sweetest person ever so I just couldn't be mad at her. He ended up being a huge jerk anyway.
There were quite a few girls I told my guy friends they were stupid for liking though.
I gave them my blessing, told him he was a coward for not telling me and told him for the love of HER to man up and take initiative every once in a while.. But its was still SHADY and I am trying to phase her out of my life wihtout being malicious. Its wierd when she talks to me about his family and stuff because I KNOW... but they are living togehter 3 years later.. so as long as they are happy.. But they are still the talk of the town and EVERYONE thought it was shady.. So there was no FIGHT.. but wierd right?
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Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]
ha. I always wonder how Hilary got over this gal.
"You're our early 20's BSC scarecrow. They cower at your maturity." - lennonkdc
[QUOTE]I have caused at least 4 breakups in my day. I'm a total homewrecker.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
haha. I'm extra glad you are getting married then.
[QUOTE]I was "the other woman" on more than one occasion. I dated FI's BFF for 11 days and realized my feelings for FI were too strong to be fair to FI's BFF, so I broke it off. I came clean to FI about my feelings one night a little less than a week later, and then he acted on it. He and his BFF didn't talk for 6 months. 2 and a half years later, they're finally back to being BFFs like they were before I got in the way. FI asked him how he would feel if FI proposed back when we started talking about all of that. I think that's when FI's BFF finally let go of the last bit of resentment. I felt terrible, but it's not the worst thing I've done. *shame face*
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]
ohhh snap! jk 11 days is nothing, and clearly you two were meant to be!
oh gosh, the worst thing we've ever done. Now that's a thread idea.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: You need to give it up...that boy is mine. : ohhh snap! jk 11 days is nothing, and clearly you two were meant to be! oh gosh, the worst thing we've ever done. Now that's a thread idea.
Posted by jenjenniferf[/QUOTE]
<div>That's a HORRIBLE idea for a thread! Lets promise to never start one of those, k?</div>
"You're our early 20's BSC scarecrow. They cower at your maturity." - lennonkdc
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: You need to give it up...that boy is mine. : That's a HORRIBLE idea for a thread! Lets promise to never start one of those, k?
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]
ALright... :(
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