So, my wedding is awhile off, but I come from a family of planners, so my sisters have already started planning my shower. Because we all live out-of-town, they've opted to throw it a week before Christmas in our hometown when we'll all be there. Because of the timing, I'm sure that a lot of my out-of-town friends and family won't be able to come and I'm actually completely fine with that. Showers intimidate me, so the smaller the better! But, here is my question: do I invite people who I know absolutely will not be able to come? I don't want anyone to feel excluded, but also don't want to appear hungry for gifts. Thanks for your help!