I know I tell these FSIL stories and you all must feel bad for her husband. Please don't- they are two peas in a pod. Here's what I saw that he posted on facebook the day of his wedding. Not "I'm getting married" or "I'm so excited to marry my love" or any other those nice things.
One of the hardest decisions I've had to do in my life was decide who was invited to my wedding. It still resonates in my head how much I wish I really could have invited everyone I really wanted to, including family. The truth of the matter is it wouldn't be possible to do such a thing as the cost, and space needed wouldn't be realistic for two people saving for their future together. If you weren't invited and feel hurt, please know that you are loved and I truly hope you are never in this situation to have to choose between anyone you love. It is not an easy task.
Ummmmm I definitely just fainted a little. Do I have to be related to these people? Who says this on facebook? On their wedding day?! At least they're gone for a week.
May 2013 February Siggy: Invitations

