We are having a DW at a lake/beach. It is very small - family and a couple of friends, probably ~40 including children.
We are having a big cookout the day of the wedding, probably eating around 3-4.
Then, the actualy ceremony will be later at sunset, followed by heavy hors d'oevres.
Is this okay, or should we try to serve a full meal at the reception as well?
TIA!