I am having my dress custom made from my mom/grandmother's dress. It will be mostly ivory with white accents. My BMs are wearing black dresses.
My FI wants him and his GMs to wear black suits with white shirts and skinny black ties. He wants to give RayBan wafers as their gifts so they look like the Blues Brothers (We're getting married at the House of Blues).
My FSIL suggested he wear an ivory vest to match me, but that kinda ruins the whole "Blues Brothers" look.
So my question is: willl we look silly if we don't match?