My FFIL is driving me nuts. I can't even deal with him or my FI right now. Cliff notes version.
My FI's family is from southern MA but I am from northern MA. After a reception hall fell into our laps (my sister's wedding was cancelled and my mom wasnt getting her $6000 back so she convinced them to transfer it to ours) we decided to get married in southern NH...St Josephs in Salem and Castleton. So anyway, my FFIL is a deacon and will be participating in the mass with the pastor. We have two other priests on our guest list. So here is the problem. It has been a running joke that our church is so small that the four of us wont all fit. NOW, all of a sudden one of the priests wants to co-celebrate. There isn't enough room and I wanted small and that would make two priests and a deacon. Then what if the other priest wants to join in, we'd be up to 3 priests and a deacon (not small in my eyes) So my FI, who doesn't like to upset anyone has just been avoiding the subject. Today he gets an email from his dad about proper etiquette and how if it is mass related and priests are there it is proper etiquette to have then co-celebrate. I am so angry right now that I want to scream or cry. They are completely ignoring my feelings and thoughts about this. I have no problem with them celebrating but the church is just too small. I told my FI (who dropped this on me via text because he is at work) that I dont want to comment at this point because he is not going to like the words I choose. Haven't heard back. Ok vent over
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