who tries to help me deal with my stress by telling me the only important thing is my FI and I standing in front of a pastor and getting married is asking to be murdered. I'm so over hearing that BS! I did not just spend the last 10 months busting my butt and spending money to dumb it down to well at least you'll be married!!
Don't get me wrong I can't wait to marry FI and I love what it means, but if it was only about getting married I wouldn't have a guest list of 205 people. I wouldn't be picking flowers and the perfect table linens and favors and music. I would be on a beach some where with a beautiful white dress and my FI. Instead I signed up for a large affair a party so to say and I am not half asssing it! Get it!?!