KUI - Who's Around?

ravenray · December 2011

What do you girls want to talk about? You know what makes me most happy about this post? We are on page 9. Now I feel like we are cool like SB and E!

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]What do you girls want to talk about? You know what makes me most happy about this post? We are on page 9. <strong>Now I feel like we are cool like SB and E! </strong>:)
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

I was thinking the same thing.

Except that threads with 250+ posts are regular occurrences on those boards, and once-in-a-blue-moon type things here.

But I'm glad this board isn't as crazy as those.

peekaboo2011 · December 2011

Yeah, I'm glad we don't get as much crazy as they do.

I love our board. I just wish we had some awesome talks like this more often.

ravenray · December 2011

Goodnight!!! Lovely Desert!! *kisses*

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]Yeah, I'm glad we don't get as much crazy as they do. I love our board. I just wish we had some awesome talks like this more often. :)
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

We should have KUI-threads every Saturday. Granted, some of us have lives, but attendance isn't mandatory.

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]Can we keep talking about sex? Because I missed out on most of that convo. And I'm booored.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

Works for me. I'm always entertained by conversations about sex.

peekaboo2011 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]I'm still here! I just got back from school, and I have a beer in hand. I'm about to make grilled cheese too.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

<div>OMG GRILLED CHEESE. BRILLIANT. Excuse me, I need a midnight snack.</div><div>
</div><div>And yes, we can continue talking about sex. I was absent for most of that. And I've finished half a bottle of wine. I'll be honest :)</div>

peekaboo2011 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : We should have KUI-threads every Saturday. Granted, some of us have lives, but attendance isn't mandatory.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>YES. And who has a life? Certainly not me.</div>

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : YES. And who has a life? Certainly not me.
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

Yeah... me neither.

ravenray · December 2011

Ya I am glad we aren't crazy like those boards too. I do wish we had awesome talks too more often. But I do love the ones we have. I'll take what I can get

Elle1036 · December 2011

So, sex talk. Ray, what is it that scares you most? The pain? Or something else?

I'm hoping we can reassure you.

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : We should have KUI-threads every Saturday. Granted, some of us have lives, but attendance isn't mandatory.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
I like this idea :)
Tell me about your first time girls who didn't tell me before!

jorja86 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]I'm still here! I just got back from school, and I have a beer in hand. I'm about to make grilled cheese too.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

Yay!! And, yes...we can definitely still talk about sex. I'm pretty un-shy* about that stuff.

*I tried to come up with a good word for that, but failed.

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]So, sex talk. Ray, what is it that scares you most? The pain? Or something else? I'm hoping we can reassure you.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
The pain I think. And well... I was molested as a child so sometimes I get all freaked out over nothing. *shurgs* After something happens once then I am fine but the first time is always scary.

peekaboo2011 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : I like this idea :) Tell me about your first time girls who didn't tell me before!
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

<div>Teehee.</div><div>
</div><div>So, I was in Germany. I had a major crush on this guy, and every time I went over to his house to study, we'd end up on his floor half naked making out. Well, then he stopped calling me unless he had a girlfriend. One such night, I was over there, drinking and smoking (I was a bad girl while I was there), and his friend and his friend's girlfriend were there as well. They started making out and getting it on on the couch in his study area, and so we left to go to his bedroom. I lost my v-card that night. In Germany. To a VERY hot German. Who had a girlfriend.</div><div>
</div><div>He couldn't actually do it with his manmeat though. He had to use his fingers. There were bloody handprints all over the sheets. I found out last year that he lost his v-card that night too. *sigh*</div>

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : The pain I think. And well... I was molested as a child so sometimes I get all freaked out over nothing. *shurgs* After something happens once then I am fine but the first time is always scary.
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

Have you ever talked to a therapist about it? I can definitely understand why those past events would make you feel this way.

And yeah, the first time doing <em>anything</em> (driving a car, having sex, eating sushi) is scary, so I get that.

If you take our advice, though, the pain at least should be minimal.

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : Me too. Your comment from earlier about one night stands interests me. What's "the average amount'? Because I'm sure I'm above it as well.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

I've never had a one night stand. I'm a little ashamed of this.

I actually confessed to my mom a few weeks ago (after one too many glasses of champagne, probably) that if I had known as a teenager what I know now, I would have been much crazier and that I kinda regret never having gone through a "slut phase".

Mom actually laughed.

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : Have you ever talked to a therapist about it? I can definitely understand why those past events would make you feel this way. And yeah, the first time doing anything (driving a car, having sex, eating sushi) is scary, so I get that. If you take our advice, though, the pain at least should be minimal.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
No I hate therapists. I had some bad experiences with them as a child. For the most part I have worked those things out but I know I am freaked out because of it. :/
I will be sure to do so! I might end up coming to yous guys for all my sexually advice!

lavenderfields13 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]Can we keep talking about sex? Because I missed out on most of that convo. And I'm booored.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

haha I was catching up on all the other pages and the sex talk was interesting and then it died down

jorja86 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : Me too. Your comment from earlier about one night stands interests me. What's "the average amount'? Because I'm sure I'm above it as well.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

Haha...wellll, it depends on your definition of a one night stand. I had sex with a lot of guys that were either friends before we had sex, or that I remained friends with after. So, does that count? If you only had sex once, but were still friends after? Or does it only count if you never see/talk to the guy again?

ravenray · December 2011

Wow Elle your mom is funny

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : Haha...wellll, it depends on your definition of a one night stand. I had sex with a lot of guys that were either friends before we had sex, or that I remained friends with after. So, does that count? If you only had sex once, but were still friends after? Or does it only count if you never see/talk to the guy again?
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]
I think anything that you only had sex once with counts.

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]Wow Elle your mom is funny :)
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

She was a little drunk, too, when we had that conversation.

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : There are only a few guys I slept with that I didn't stay friends with after. Like only 1 was totally random. (I met him at concert and went home with him. <em>WTF was I thinking??)</em>
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]
SEX! And I hope his thing is big!

peekaboo2011 · December 2011

I came dangerously close to cheating on my ex for a one night stand at a science conference. Oops.

lavenderfields13 · December 2011

I had my slutty phase during HS and while I try not to regret anything...half the guys were just a waste that I now have to factor in to my "number". I honestly didn't even enjoy sex until my first serious BF.

Elle1036 · December 2011

Ray, I have a question. Have you and your FI done... like... anything? What base have you guys gotten to?

I know that's a personal question, but this thread has been all kinds of TMI tonight. Don't answer if you're uncomfortable.

jorja86 · December 2011

Ok, if we're counting everyone I only had sex with once...half of my total number.

ETA: that would be half my total number were guys I only had sex with once. I would consider like half of that number to be true one night stands (have no idea where they are now, only had sex once, and never saw them again)

ravenray · December 2011

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[QUOTE]Ray, I have a question. Have you and your FI done... like... anything ? What base have you guys gotten to? I know that's a personal question, but this thread has been all kinds of TMI tonight. Don't answer if you're uncomfortable.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
Lol yes. I'm fricken horny. We have basicly gotten to third base. We really shouldn't have but we have. We have done a lot of stuff. Except sex. It will be nice when I don't have to worry about not doing it anymore :)

Elle1036 · December 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KUI - Who's Around? : Lol yes. I'm fricken horny. We have basicly gotten to third base. We really shouldn't have but we have. We have done a lot of stuff. Except sex. It will be nice when I don't have to worry about not doing it anymore :)
Posted by ravenray[/QUOTE]

That's good, though. It means you're already comfortable with each other's bodies and stuff. Any weirdness you can have already gotten over with before the wedding night is good.

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