My mother grew up Lutheran and converted to Catholicism when I was nine, bringing all of us kids with her. My dad converted a year later, and we've been happily Catholic ever since.
My maternal grandfather, however, is still very Lutheran...and a pastor, to boot! I know he'll want to be involved in my wedding, but I don't know how to include him in a way that he won't be offended or feel like he's just been given a tiny role.
We're definitely set on a Catholic ceremony (although whether or not it will be a mass is still up in the air...my fiance isn't Catholic), and getting him there is a big enough issue in itself. But how do I include him without compromising my Catholic ceremony?