Ughhh, knotties. I need to rant. A couple months ago, FI and I started to put together our guest list. We gathered named from our parents and was able to get an idea of where we were number-wise.
Well, now are starting to sit down and finalize our guest list. We asked both sets of parents to give us their final list of guests (full names and addresses) and FI's mom comes back with a list --- DOUBLE what she had previously given us. Our venue only holds 200 - her guest list is over half of that and included all of their immediate family, extended family, and family friends. Now, I'm just completely annoyed and don't know how to comfortably bring this up to her. The last thing I want to do is cause bad blood.
FI and I are paying for the wedding, basically 90% ourselves. I don't mean to pull a "Zilla" card on this, but I do not feel like cutting friends of mine or people that I would like there to accommodate all of their guests. My parents list is about 60% of FI's parents list and we know that theres at least a good handful of those guests who won't be able to make it (out of state). I just don't think its fair. Am I being a brat about this?