I just wanted to thank everyone who took the time to respond to my post. A quick update: I have an uncle who is a relationship therapist and he told me how to approach the situation tactfully, how our relationship was worth saving if we wanted to save it. So the bf and I talked that night, I laid it all out there, how badly his nonchalant attitude towards my feelings hurt me and how I felt like I was putting way more into the relationship then him. He let me tell him everything without interrupting. He responded with how he didnt realize how badly he was hurting me, that he was wrong for ever making me feel like he didnt love or care about me. He then surprised me by coming up here for 4 days. It was a total surprise, I had no clue. And while I know it hasnt been that long, but it feels different this time. He has made an effort every single day to make me feel worth it. He is even making an effort with my dad and let me tell you, with some of the things my dad has said in regards to him (all of them unfounded might I add, just absolutely absurd), Im surprised he is so eager to hang out with him. I just wanted to say thanks for all of the advice!
