So my fiance and I are getting married in March, because he is in the military. My mother has been uneployed for over the past two years, and we haven't been on speaking terms. She kicked me out of the house when I was in highschool, and didn't try talking with me until she heard through the grapevine that I was engaged. SO tonight I call her, and she is throwing a huge fit about how I didn't invite her to the March wedding. Now ehres the key point, my ceremony and reception will be in AUGUST. My fiance and I are just signing papers. Now I understand that it is a legal wedding, but all she is missing is me signing my name. So after I explained to her a plane ticket from Chicago to EL Paso, TX would cost 800, and the drive is a 22 hour drive, she said "It's obvious you made your decision. You always choose your father and your friends over me!"
Not once, did I say, NOPE YOU CANT COME. So later I tried telling her how I felt, and all I said was that this is supposed to be happy, and joyous. It should be about me. Her response? "Of course it's about you, it's always about you!"
I don't know what to do. She and I haven't spoken at all, and now she's threatening to not come to either wedding.
I just kind of give up.