Since we got engaged, our best man has been sucked more and more into his gf. We don't really like her because she acts like she is better than us and anytime we hang out, she ignores us and plays on her phone. Plus she has a very tight leash on him, so seeing him has become impossible. She has changed him so much too... we used to hang out and go fishing and drink beer on tailsgates. Now he goes to wine tastings with her in limos, and does nothing with any of his friends. This has been an issue for about a year and a half and FI has been upset about it.
We talked to him a few weeks ago and he was all agreeable about going with FI to look into outfits for the wedding. But as usual, trying to get him to hang out and actually do that was impossible. When FI and I went monday to pick out what he was wearing, we pieced together the guys outfits. He sent a pic to all 3 guys,,, 2 loved it and sent their sizes so stuff could be ordered. Best man did not reply to a single thing. FI even sent him a text saying "I need your size ASAP if you want to be in this wedding." No reply.
I know, people are busy. He is planning to propose to his bit- I mean, girlfriend, in July. I'm sure thats on his mind but come on..... do we not matter at all anymore?
The store even called FI to ask wtf was up, so they could order the shirts. He's very upset. So, is this like BM dresses... if they don't order by the day you say, they aren't in the wedding? Should i try to call him?