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megz0986 · April 2010

Thank you for all your help!

shellydiane820 · April 2010

If you decide to have an adults only reception, that's a fact you'll have to accept. Usually there's an excpetion for babies, but in my opinion, he's almost 2, he should be fine with a babysitter. However, it depends on the comfort level of the parents.

agk0125 · April 2010

There's a lot of time between now and your wedding. Honestly, just let it go. By the time the wedding comes they be less insistent about him coming.

agk0125 · April 2010

Wow sorry about the formatting insanity. It looked normal before I posted.

miss.jawright · April 2010

Could he be a ring bearer in the ceremony and then suggest a babysitter for the reception? And with the wedding so far away how do they know he isn't invited?

tlv204 · April 2010

I mean I agree with you about wanting an adults only wedding, but when you decide that, you have to accept that some people may not come if they don't feel comfortable coming without their kids. It sucks that they feel this way, but it is their kid, you can't decide how they feel about it. It's up to you whether you decide to let him come and risk offending all of the other guests whose children weren't invited, or stand your ground and risk them not coming.

tlv204 · April 2010

Your invitations shouldn't say adults only anyway. That's rude.

mandybear7 · April 2010

They also may be overreacting at the moment because right now, he's only 4 months old and are probably more protective right now. Hopefully things will work out.

JenniferLuvsCandy · April 2010

Why the delete?

laurenclaire1386 · April 2010

For future reference, it's obnoxious to delete the OP. Then no ones knows what the hell is going on in this thread and anybody who had a similar question (which doesn't matter anyway, but it's a principle) won't see this.