Ive been working at a small private school for 11 years. Ive grown to be very close with several of my coworkers. Two of my co workers are in my wedding and Im inviting other co workers to my wedding. Do I have to invite ALL of my coworkers even though we are not close at all? I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings but I also have to keep my guest count at 125. If I do invite all of my coworkers, is it ok not to invite their husbands? That would help with the count. Ugggggg. Help!
Re: inviting co workers
If it's a small school, I would be careful about not inviting everyone. Are you divided into departments?
"So I sing a song of love, Julia"
06.10.10
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People you are not close with should not expect to be invited, and like it was mentioned, if they are offended they will probably get over it quickly.
For real. If you're going to post a question have the courtesy to say you're posting and running. We can't offer much more advice at the moment because there are questions to be answered by, um, you.
"So I sing a song of love, Julia"
06.10.10
BFAR:We Defined Our Own Success!
"So I sing a song of love, Julia"
06.10.10
BFAR:We Defined Our Own Success!
"So I sing a song of love, Julia"
06.10.10
BFAR:We Defined Our Own Success!
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[QUOTE]I do not think people are so super offended at not being invited to a wedding as most of us think. I mean, you get a Saturday night to yourself and don't need to buy a gift if you aren't invited. But then, you have to pay for your own dinner. So it's a trade-off.
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I think you are right about this, if my work was a little bit bigger I prob would have done it differently.We are pretty small group and I heard how bad they talked about the last girl to get married that did not invite anyone....
2011-2012 Races
10/29/11 LA RockNRoll Min Half (5K) 42:58
12/4/11 Vegas RockNRoll Half 3:14:53
1/7/12 WDW Half 3:13:42
1/15/12 RnR AZ 2:55:27 (PR!!)
1/29/12 Tinkerbell 1/2 3:22:37 (To many picture stops!lol)
Me:32 DH:33
IFV w/ DE Only Option (On Hold For Now)