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Pentecostal engagement ring

My girlfriend belongs to a United Pentecostal congregation.  She doesn't wear makeup and doesn't cut her hair.  Should I also be cautious about spending too much on a ring?  All of her ideas that she has sent me were $150 or less.  I was thinking of spending $500-$1000 or the set.  I know she'll like anything I get her.

Re: Pentecostal engagement ring

  • I don't know a lot about that religion but it sounds like she doesn't want to draw too much attention to herself. I would honour her wishes regarding the size of a stone. If you're really wanting to spend more than the ones she sent you, I'd go for a better quality stone (ie. colour, clarity) and more expensive metal (ie. gold or platinum). 
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  • The ring n my pic was 199. Get her a ring she will be comfortable with because it is not a reflection of your abilities as a provider, it is a symbol of love and devotion. Price shouldn't matter. Mine was cheap as it is my family's birthstones which also happened to be my favorite colors because I didn't want diamonds. Put the extra money into a photographer or food at the wedding!
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  • Take her ring shopping with you! That way she can help you choose and you know that she will like it!

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  • She may just want a simple ring. My ring was $395 (on sale from 800) but I wanted something small and simple. Not because we didn't have the money, but because I wanted something that i knew was not going to cause havoc on my life. I am not the ring type, it actually took a while to get used to wearing my e-ring. I wanted a simple flat setting so i could perform my job with ease.
    If she is showing you ideas, and knows you plan on proposing... why not take her shopping with you?

    The other thought i had... was maybe she is afraid of asking for something that costs too much. So again... taking her shopping may show a better idea of what really makes her ooohhhh and awwwww without being able to see the price right away.

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