Sorry so long. Venting.
I'm so frustrated. Ugh. My fiance and I have been together since we were 15, sophomores in high school. We are now 19 (although I wll be 20 next month, and he will be 20 in Aug. haha he's younger) and have been together over 4 years, I have lived with him since I was 17 (my family is...complicated) and we got engaged Dec. 12 of 2009.
We realize that we are young. That is why we are waiting until we graduate (bachelor's degrees) before we get married. June 2012. We feel that is a mature decision, and we already live together, so there is no rush to get married. We are using the long engagement to save up and are not planning anything for another year or year and a half.
Family members and friends of ours (friends "old enough" to have babies of their own btw) have commented on how "young" we are to get married. First, we are not getting married at 19, we are engaged at 19. Second, we realize we are young, that's why we are waiting. So we know when that day comes that it is the right decision. Third, doesn't that prove we are mature enough to be engaged!?
Btw again, I have no problem with young mothers. Really. I just feel that if you are old enough to have a baby at my age, then you are in no place to judge me getting engaged at my age. Just sayin.