My fi and I got engaged on Thursday last week and I'm already butting heads with my future MIL. Our first conversation after our engagment announcement was her telling us who was doing what in our wedding. She got conpletely offended when my Fi didn't pick his brother-in-law as his best man and that we hadn't asked my future sister-in-law to be apart of the wedding yet, mostly because we wanted to ask her personally what she felt comfortable doing since her husband is a groomsman, her daughter a flower girl and son the ring bearer, plus traveling halfway across the country to be there. My future MIL won't settle for anything less than her choices! Personally, I feel that since she isn't paying for anything in this wedding we can listen to her suggestions but it's our choice since we're the ones paying for it. Any suggestions for dealing with a passive aggressive MOTG?