I feel awful writing this post. My MOH is my best friend of 6 years. We were roomates in college and have been inseperable ever since. We even live in the same house (separate apartments). We promised each other we would be each other's MOH's when it came to that time, and once my fiancee proposed, she was the obvious choice.
Now that it's planning time, though...she is being difficult. When I was trying to find an outfit for engagement photos and invited her to go shopping with me, her response was, "I don't have any money right now, so going shopping wouldn't be any fun for me." When I brought her to a bridal show with my mom and sister (my matron of honor), she acted so strangely that my mom actually asked me if she was on drugs. The clincher, though, was today when I showed her the invitations I picked out and she outright LAUGHED at them. It really hurt me. I'm not sure if this is because her boyfriend of 5 years has not proposed to her yet (he is planning to) and she is jealous, or if she just has no clue at all.
My response to these situations is usually to just let things roll off my back, but should I make a stand and say something?